Patient's question:
My husband has a very high libido. We've been divorced for several years, and he wants to have sex with me almost every two or three days. However, I don't always feel like it, even if he spends a long time caressing and kissing me before we have sex. For this reason, I often refuse him, and he gets very frustrated, saying I'm frigid. Because of this, we often argue. What kind of help do I need: What should a frigid woman eat?Doctor's answer:
It may be caused by imbalanced levels of sex hormones, so it is recommended to consult a traditional Chinese medicine practitioner for (regulating and nurturing). Traditional Chinese medicine believes that this condition is often due to a deficiency of yang in the lower body, the accumulation of cold qi, or the decline of kidney yang, allowing wind-cold pathogens to invade through vulnerabilities, leading to cold qi accumulating in the genital area. The treatment for this condition primarily involves completely eliminating the woman's tension and aversion towards sex, correctly understanding sexual techniques and related physiological anatomy, and fostering mutual understanding and cooperation. For female sexual apathy, in addition to psychological therapy, appropriate dietary therapy can be beneficial in stabilizing function and reducing sexual desire.