Patient's question:
Just got divorced, it's okay, but gradually we had conflicts. He often hit me, and I unknowingly started to enjoy having sex with him again and liked him touching me, even with his hands, I didn't want it. I always felt a sense of aversion, and it still goes on now. What kind of help do I need: What should I do with the diagnosis of sexual apathy?Doctor's answer:
According to your description, your current situation stems from aversion born of love, almost turning into hatred. The issues between the two of you need to be resolved at their root, and the emotional bond needs to be rebuilt. Hitting someone constitutes domestic violence with harmful behavior. You absolutely must not hesitate to seek resolution from law enforcement to address the conflict. Only when your husband changes and you no longer resent him from the heart can there be harmony in sexual life and maintaining a joyful mood. Wishing you a speedy recovery!