Patient's question:
Hello doctor, I've been married for over a year, and I've never experienced an orgasm during sexual intercourse with my husband. I thought I was frigid. But one day while I was taking a bath and washing my private area, I suddenly touched a sensitive spot. Then, I kept rubbing that spot with my hand for about ten minutes. A feeling I had never experienced before slowly emerged, as if something exploded inside my body...Later, when I had sex with my husband, I also rubbed that sensitive spot, but I felt nothing.
Doctor, I'd like to ask what this could be? During masturbation (and I didn't even insert anything into the vagina, just
Doctor's answer:
Understanding one's own body, much like knowing one's erogenous zones, is a gradual process. At the same time, finding a mutually pleasurable sexual way with one's husband is also an ongoing exploration. You can tell your husband where your sensitive areas are, and during intimacy, he can consciously touch them. There should be no shame—pursuing sexual pleasure is a natural right. You also need to work things out with your husband.