Don't touch my lover (Marriage and relationship counselor Shu Chang guides you out of the emotional vortex)

Author: Shu Chang
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Publish Date: 2006-07-01
Features: Love requires respect. And respect can be mutually infectious. Men respect women's tenderness, beauty, and gentleness, while women respect men's masculinity, courage, and the wealth they create. On the premise of respect, both men and women experience the energy of love. Perhaps random suspicions have brought your family to the brink of collapse, or perhaps your innate personality has made your emotions turbulent, or perhaps painful memories have caused your marriage to crumble. These heart-wrenching emotional knots occupy your life and disrupt your work, trapping you in the of emotions without realizing it. Through vivid examples and lively characters, experts use their rich social experience and professional psychological analysis methods to delve deep into the unknown inner world, interpret helpless emotional doubts, and expose blind romantic and marital misconceptions, thereby establishing correct views on romantic and marital emotions. In the Garden of Love, it's hard for anyone not to experience the bitterness and pain intertwined with its sweetness. The magic of love lies in the yin-yang interaction between the two genders and the dreams it creates. While forgetting reality and not knowing where you are, you experience the roller-coaster-like ups and downs and the euphoric forgetfulness. Grasping and controlling love is a difficult task. But men and women share a common desire in our love—this man and this woman are exclusively mine. Unfortunately, the dreams of the two cannot wake up at the same time. Thus, a kaleidoscope of emotions—love and hatred—arises between men and women. Eventually, even the parties themselves become unclear whether they are loving or hating. The purpose of this book is to help readers understand that the love of ordinary people is related to their inner expectations and desires. Love that comes without understanding the situation is hard to sustain in the long run. We are not saints; from childhood to adulthood, we don't know at which stage we might lose something or have something unmet, and all this is hidden in our subconscious. Later in life, we unconsciously seek and demand it. Often, this hunger appears in intimate relationships between the two genders, because the loss usually occurs in childhood within the close relationship with parents, and what is lost is searched for again in that place. That's why adult intimate relationships between the two genders become so colorful! This book is divided into five chapters, covering topics such as how men and women find emotional balance, the relationship between love and sex, and who makes a good marriage.