Patient's question:
I've been married for over two years. Every day when I come home from work, I feel very eager to have sex with my wife, but once I get home, it's not the same. Every time, my wife has to gently stroke me for a long time before I can get an erection. After insertion, no matter how I thrust, I don't feel like I'm going to cum. I want to ask, what should I do if I get an erection but don't cum?Doctor's answer:
You have a sexual psychological disorder. You have a rebellious mindset due to depression, which is a psychological illness. Psychological illnesses require psychological treatment. The best way to treat it is through psychological counseling and treatment. Medication only treats the symptoms, not the root cause, and has side effects and dependency. We recommend that you undergo systematic psychological counseling and treatment to avoid affecting your life. This situation must be addressed through psychological counseling at your local psychiatric department. This type of sexual disorder is not easy to recover from. Friends who are patients should maintain a positive mindset and face it with optimism. Only in this way can they reduce their resistance to the disorder and believe that recovery is certain.