Focus is gold

Author: Zhou Hong
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Publish Date: 2006-09-01
Features: Find a racing opponent
Think about a long-distance race on an athletics field, and you can gain some insights into how to do things. At the start, everyone runs together, and it's hard to tell who's in the lead. But as the race progresses, the runners usually latch onto a competitor and then suddenly speed up to overtake them at the right time. They then latch onto another opponent and overtake them again at the right moment! They keep doing this until the finish line.
Long-distance running, especially marathons, is a race of endurance and willpower, and willpower often triumphs over physical strength. Some people drop out of the race even when their physical condition is still good because they lack the willpower. Others may be in the lead but gradually slow down without realizing it, allowing others to catch up.
Following a competitor is to avoid this situation and to use them as motivation: Don't slow down! It also reminds you: Don't sprint too fast, or you'll run out of energy too early! It also helps combat loneliness. If you observe a marathon race, you'll notice this pattern: First, small groups form, then they break into pairs or threes, and only after the halfway point do individual leaders start to emerge.
Isn't life itself like a "long-distance race"? If so, why not learn from the strategies of long-distance runners? Choose one person to follow and make them your target to chase and surpass! However, the "opponent" you choose must meet certain criteria—you can't just pick anyone randomly. Your target should be a colleague or classmate who is stronger than you in terms of achievements or abilities. In other words, they should be "ahead of you" but not too far ahead. If they're too far, you might not be able to catch up, even if you do, it will take a lot of time and effort, making the race exhausting and frustrating with too many setbacks.
Once you've found your opponent, analyze them comprehensively. Understand where their strengths lie and how they achieved their accomplishments. Learn about their work methods, including how they build relationships and improve their skills. After studying them, you can either adopt their methods or refine your own. I believe you'll see results quickly—you'll gradually catch up and eventually surpass them!
After surpassing your current opponent, you can then find another one to follow and surpass. Keep doing this, and you'll surely stay ahead of others. Even if you don't win the "championship," you won't be left far behind. However, be aware of this fact: In a long-distance race, just following one opponent doesn't guarantee you'll surpass them. You might catch up, only for them to suddenly surge ahead a few steps and leave you behind again! The same applies to doing things. You might struggle to catch up, only for them to pull away once more.
When you find yourself in this situation, don't lose heart. Such things are inevitable. If you can catch up, then do so. If you can't, it's likely due to your own limitations. Forcing yourself to keep up would only deplete your energy prematurely. But is this effort wasted? Not at all! Your determination and effort in "following" your opponent have already unlocked your potential and passion, allowing you to progress more than you would have without a target to chase.