Patient's question:
I am unmarried and have two children. I suffer from severe premature ejaculation, and I lose my erection as soon as we have sex. I cannot enjoy sexual life, which has led to conflicts between my wife and me. We often argue. I am only 40 years old, and my wife is younger than me. If this continues, our family will fall apart. What should I do?Doctor's answer:
If sexual function was normal in the past, but premature ejaculation has reappeared and become severe now, it is likely due to excessive work stress and mental tension during this period, which has affected sexual function. To alleviate this issue, it is necessary to find ways to improve physical condition, exercise more appropriately, maintain a regular lifestyle, and quit smoking and drinking. Between couples, it is important to communicate more, understand each other's thoughts, and also recognize how difficult it is to take care of each other. If symptoms of urgency or frequent urination appear, it is also necessary to undergo a thorough examination to check for urinary system diseases that may be causing sexual dysfunction.