Patient's question:
Since puberty, I have had sexual intercourse for a long time. As a 22-year-old adult, my penis is very small—only about 8 cm when erect. Each time I have sex, it takes less than a minute if it's fast. These are the results of my frequent sexual activity in the past. My girlfriend has also married me because of this, and I feel embarrassed to go to the hospital. What should I do?Doctor's answer:
Chronic sexual activity can lead to kidney deficiency, impotence, and premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation occurs during sexual intercourse when the erect penis does not enter the vagina or enters it shortly after and quickly ejaculates, unable to bring the woman to orgasm and causing the sexual act to be unable to continue. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that the kidneys store essence, and essence is stored in the kidneys. Excessive sexual activity can lead to the leakage of essence, thus causing symptoms of premature ejaculation. It is recommended to engage more with the outside world and distract oneself. Psychologists believe that when a person is alone, their psychological activity tends to turn inward, narrowing and shrinking in scope. It is important to communicate more with others, cultivate one's character, enrich one's mind, and develop a well-rounded personality.