Protect love

Author: Stack Bridge
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Publish Date: 2003-05-01
Features: The interaction between men and women in marriage is sometimes like playing chess. Every move has dozens of possible responses, and each response corresponds to dozens of different solutions. There are no real tricks involved—it all depends on one's chess skills and mistakes. The difference is that chess has winners and losers, but marriage is a win-win or lose-lose situation, with no real victory or defeat. Is there a worthy opponent in chess or a match made in heaven in marriage? Yes. But balance can only be achieved through the dynamic interplay of contradictions. Men need women's admiration, and women need men's appreciation; men look at women, but women can never truly hold men; when men fall in love, the world becomes bigger, and when women fall in love, the world becomes smaller; loving men are open-minded and introspective, while loving women are charming and obedient; men become more understanding of fathers when they become fathers, and women become more understanding of mothers when they become mothers; men are puppets of responsibility, while women are captives of emotions; men's careers are like lifeboats, while women's careers are journeys of the heart; men shed tears and are disliked, while women shed tears and are pitied; men see love as a part of life, while women give their entire lives to love; men fear poverty, while women fear aging.