Patient's question:
Before, both my girlfriend and I were virgins. Because she was in pain, I didn't go out. Later, we tried it three more times, and she was a bit reluctant due to the pain. I always at the vaginal opening. The last time, she let me in, but I still at the vaginal opening...（I have a history of masturbation and have been circumcised. Before my girlfriend agreed, I would use my penis to rub her vaginal opening to. I'm wondering what kind of assistance I need: Am I suffering from premature ejaculation? If so, what should I do? What activities can help?）Doctor's answer:
Ejaculatory dysfunction refers to premature ejaculation, where after the penis is inserted into the vagina, the male reaches orgasm in less than 2 minutes of masturbation before the female reaches sexual climax, leading to an unsatisfactory sexual experience. This condition is often associated with kidney deficiency and can be treated with traditional Chinese medicine formulas such as Liuwei Dihuang Wan and Jinluo Gujing Wan for nourishment. Rest is also important. Consuming foods that support kidney health and semen retention, such as oysters, walnuts, chestnuts, softshell turtles, clams, pigeon eggs, and pig kidneys, can be beneficial. Additionally, it is recommended to wear a condom and try changing positions, such as the male-on-top position, to reduce sensitivity. Intermittent masturbation can also be practiced to gradually restore function. Ejaculatory dysfunction tends to be recurrent, requiring long-term medication.