Patient's question:
I am 18 years old. In the past two years, I basically masturbated once a day or even more. I felt like I could finish in a moment. In the past few months, when I actually did it, I also thought, "It won't take more than a few minutes, right?" And it really was like that. In these past few months, I did it several times, and when I was close to insertion, it took about 3 minutes to finish, and there was also a sense of pain. What's going on?Doctor's answer:
Everyone has low self-esteem, just to varying degrees. Humans all have feelings of inferiority, as well as the desire to overcome them and achieve self-improvement. When we are young, we feel inferior seeing others grow up; when we grow older, we realize others are less financially secure than us; when we lack money, we see others are wealthier, younger, and stronger. All these contribute to feelings of inferiority in our hearts. Moreover, low self-esteem is actually something not to be feared. To some extent, it can also be a driving force for a person to continuously improve themselves.