Men only listen to what men say

Author: (German) Victor, translated by Wang Yurong
Translator: Hu Kai / Country:
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Publishing Date: 2000-12-01
Features: If we want to understand a man, we rely on what he says. However, his narrative of his past experiences and encounters is often imprecise and unrealistic, as he may not have a correct understanding of these experiences himself. Nevertheless, we should not speculate or fabricate anything on our own. We ask the man about his childhood and current situation. We listen attentively and seek connections, similarities, and structural coherence. If we can find these elements, it means we have taken another step forward in our understanding.