Win Without Fighting: Thirteen Strategies for Dealing with Attacks in Life

Author: Joseph Kishner (Austria), translated by Yao Liqun
Translator: Yao Liqun
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Publish Date: 2001-01-01
Features: Fear needs dependence, and dependence is composed of the need for others' recognition. Under this premise, complete victory is impossible, so every student who achieves "victory without fighting" naturally asks, "How can I break free from the fear of punishment and the need for praise?" The answer is: live by your own principles and evaluate your achievements yourself. This way, you can overcome the fear of others' criticism in your heart and avoid the eternal struggle between ability and desire. Everyone can learn from the example of the streetwalker Tipu Foko through effort: whoever allows others to discover their "button" of the need for their secrets will suffer failure, such as showing dependence on someone. Therefore, the first step toward self-liberation is deep self-awareness. Those who can recognize all their needs can overcome them before they are used by others.