Patient's question:
My son is two years old. He doesn't cry when he's hurt or falls, but he cries non-stop when his needs aren't met. What should I do?Doctor's answer:
Children are still young, and their language expression skills are not yet developed. Therefore, it is natural for them to cry when their needs are not met. Some parents, unable to tolerate their children's crying, satisfy their demands at random, which is equivalent to indirectly rewarding their behavior. So, when a child makes a request, parents must adhere to principles. If the request can be met, it should be fulfilled as much as possible. If it cannot be met immediately, it can be delayed appropriately, such as diverting their attention. If it is a principle-based issue, adults should stand firm on their principles. Otherwise, they may develop the habit of using tears to manipulate their parents in the future.