Dare to love, dare not hate

Author: Chu Baisen
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Publish Date: 2006-07-01
Features: Being bold in love and hate may sound very individualistic, but it's very easy to fall into the trap of hating. Being bold in love but not in hate sounds very challenging. If you can conquer the feeling of hatred, you will gain a different perspective and a different life! Why choose not to hate? What are the benefits of not hating? How can one achieve not hating? The author of this book, through psychological insights and vivid examples, provides all the answers. After reading this book, your life may not be perfect, but it will definitely not be failing. And it will certainly be happier!
In our work and daily lives, there are many things that cause us pain, anger, disappointment, and sorrow; yet there are also many things that deserve laughter, joy, peace, and encouragement. Helen Keller once said, "Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of overcoming." We cannot control what happens to us, nor can we avoid negative emotions like sadness, resentment, and the like. However, we can choose how to respond, and we can choose the sunlight.
If we can choose to have the courage and strength to "be bold in not hating," to put ourselves in others' shoes, to communicate, to listen carefully, and even to forgive, then pain may not disappear, but it won't leave us completely broken. Heartache may not vanish, but it will eventually pass. Anger may not be avoidable, but it won't cause us to lose control and do things we'll regret for a lifetime. Disappointment may not run away on its own, but we can get back up.
To live a happier and more fulfilling life, we must not only be bold in love but also bold in not hating! Why choose not to hate? What are the benefits of not hating? How can one achieve not hating? The author, through psychological insights and vivid examples, provides all the answers. After reading this book, your life may not be perfect, but it will definitely not be failing. And it will certainly be happier!