Patient's question:
Okay, here is the translation following your instructions:Before sex, it started off straight, but then when we were about to enter, it shrank. Recently, I had never had sex with her before.
Doctor's answer:
Hello, it is psychological factors that cause erectile dysfunction. The main psychological factors leading to erectile dysfunction are:① Fear of sexual intercourse, afraid it will harm the woman's body or deplete one's "qi";
② Guilt or panic about masturbation, self-suggesting that masturbation can cause erectile dysfunction;
③ Poor sexual environment, worrying about others finding out;
④ Lack of harmony between husband and wife, mutual distrust or suspicion;
⑤ Fear of not being able to get an erection and thus causing the woman's dissatisfaction. These factors can all lead to erectile dysfunction.
Guidance: Treatment for erectile dysfunction should address different causes with different measures. For psychological erectile dysfunction, different "heart medicine" should be applied to different "heart problems." For those afraid of pregnancy, effective and simple contraceptive measures should be taken to eliminate fear and worry. The wife should provide necessary encouragement, comfort, and understanding to her husband, actively cooperating. Excessive blame, urging, complaining, or dissatisfaction can only increase the husband's psychological burden, making him more anxious and tense. The more he tries to perform sexual intercourse, the more he struggles. The husband should approach sexual life with a relaxed and pleasant attitude. Viewing sexual life as a pleasant game, entertainment, or a walk will naturally make him feel much lighter. However, regarding sexual life as an obligation, punishment, harmful behavior, or a "test" of one's emotions and sexual ability is not conducive to relaxation. Building confidence is key to eliminating anxiety and fear about sexual life.
Lifestyle Management: Once the patient is in a relaxed state, instructions can be given under hypnosis that the penis can become erect. After several hypnotherapy sessions, penile function can be well restored, allowing normal excitement and erection.