Mindset Changes Behavior - Growing Up with Your Child - A Must-Have Handbook for Young Parents

Author: (American) Peterson
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Publish Date: 2006-05-01
Features: Education begins with life; once personality is established, it is difficult to change. (English) William Shakespeare (1564-1616) Gently train children to develop the habit of enduring pain without shrinking, which is a fundamental method to calm their spirits and enable them to be brave and decisive in their later lives. (English) John Locke (1632-1704) Children tend to stray toward evil largely because their good nature is led astray. (French) Jean-Jacques Rousseau (1712-1778) Calm, serious, and pragmatic guidance is the external manifestation that education should have, rather than being tyrannical, angry, shouting, pleading, or begging. (Soviet) A.C. Makarenko (1888-1939) For education, what is truly needed is not a national schedule but a personal schedule for every child. (English) Charles Handy (1932-) The ideas expressed in this book are based on the social learning theory (social learning theory) proposed by Skinner (B.F. Skinner) and Bandura (A. Bandura). This theory has two clear claims: one is that teaching a person is more important than teaching an accomplished person; the other is that cognitive processes are more important than results. Social learning theory emphasizes the fact that people teach each other. It believes that imitation is one of the key elements of children's learning. The significance of imitation lies in reminding parents that they should be role models for their children, rather than machines busy earning money all day, completely neglecting their children, allowing TV and online games to become their main sources of knowledge, and letting them learn violence and indifference from there. How do family members change each other? This book will reveal the mysteries of this process to parents. Once you understand this, you will realize that you should question everything just as your children do, seek and understand answers yourself rather than relying on others. In this way, you can understand your emotions, fears, and anxieties, your hopes and joys, and everything within you. Only in this way can you become a qualified parent while also becoming an excellent person. All the main ideas in this book have been broken down into small units or items. You must actively answer these items, not just read them. You must write down your answers one by one and then check the answers provided at the end of each chapter.