Parents only do 3 things.

Author: Lin Ge
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Publish Date: 2006-05-01
Features: Simple and practical family education principles, 10 years of parenting expertise from the well-known educational institution – Beijing Shuren Tianchi Education Research Institute, core teaching materials from the National Education Famous Experts Touring Lecture Series, hand-written notes that have circulated among the people for years, and have been wildly shared by millions of parents! Young scholar Lin Ge reminds young parents not to fall into in educating their children again. He believes that many parents currently exhibit blind faith and imitation, with some even becoming obsessed with the parenting experiences of so-called successful children. In reality, these experiences often sound easy but are difficult to implement. Some parents, due to their attempts to imitate without understanding, end up achieving the opposite of their intentions. Lin Ge argues that as education researchers, their work lies in transforming parents' perspectives and enhancing the transferability of rational awareness research. They should abstract general solutions or principles and make them into techniques for parents. Lin Ge also believes that for parents, to transform good ideas into good techniques, they must focus on selecting and reflecting based on their actual circumstances, being smart parents. They should be good at refining the truly useful essence. The so-called "true essence" refers to those "effective suggestions that can articulate a clear point and also be understood from both positive and negative perspectives." If one merely clones or imitates blindly, it's easy to end up "painting a tiger but resembling a dog." Therefore, accepting ideas and methods must be done with caution. This book helps parents find the best methods for educating their children by focusing on three key aspects: cultivating a good parent-child relationship, fostering good habits in children, and guiding children to learn how to learn.