Patient's question:
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years, and we've been having sex for over a year. During sex, I can only feel comfortable, but I've never reached an orgasm. When my boyfriend asks if I orgasmed, I pretend to, but I've never actually experienced what an orgasm feels like. Is this an issue with me or is my boyfriend not doing enough? But I think he's doing a great job. What kind of help do I want: How can women achieve an orgasm?Doctor's answer:
Analysis of the condition: Hello, it is recommended to first check whether there is a possibility of gynecological inflammation, whether there are psychological concerns, and whether there is a lack of foreplay. Additionally, it is essential to engage in more caressing before sexual activity to increase the secretion of love fluid and promote lubrication. It is also suggested to adopt the male-on-bottom, female-on-top position (the female-on-top position is the most effective method, as it allows women to have full freedom of movement in seeking self-gratification. This position also causes women to tighten their legs together or adjust the depth of the penis insertion to suit their own way, allowing the clitoris to touch the man's pubis). Sufficient clitoral stimulation or other forms of stimulation should be provided before sexual climax, and then the penis is inserted into the vagina. Shortly after, the woman reaches sexual climax. Sufficient foreplay should be conducted before the penis is inserted into the vagina.