Patient's question:
I really like my boyfriend, but I've never been able to figure out what he really feels for me—is he also very fond of me? However, when we have sex, he is very willing to perform oral sex on me. I've asked some of my female friends, and they said that this behavior means my boyfriend loves me very much. Their boyfriends sometimes do the same thing, and it's considered a skillful act.What kind of help do I need: What are the techniques for giving a woman oral sex?
Doctor's answer:
Making love is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and set the mood for it. For example, at night, dim the lights a bit. Both of you should take a bath first, especially the woman, because the female genital structure is more complex with more folds, making it easier to accumulate dirt, so make sure to clean the labia majora and minora thoroughly during the bath. The man should turn on some music and wait in bed for her. After the woman rinses, she should get used to applying some perfume to her genital area, but avoid using too strong or too much perfume, as the man's nose will be closest to your genital area when he performs oral sex on you. If the perfume is too strong, it might easily irritate him. Also, don't apply perfume to the labia, as the scent of your so-called vaginal discharge is not from perfume. Instead, spray some perfume on your palm and lightly dab it on the pubic hair area and inner thighs. It's also a good idea to lightly apply some perfume to the clitoris (anorectal area). Prepare two towels, one large and one small. The large towel should be placed on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel can be used to wipe sweat and water. Place a glass of water by the bed so that it's within easy reach when you're thirsty, avoiding the need to leave the room to get water and interrupt the woman's experience for too long.