Patient's question:
My first time wasn't bloody, but my boyfriend didn't believe I was a virgin. I searched for information on this topic and showed it to him, but he still didn't believe me. He said that the first time isn't determined by bleeding, but by the feeling. He mentioned that his ex-girlfriend was a virgin and it was difficult for him to penetrate, but he said it was easy for me, so he was sure I wasn't a virgin. Why is this happening? I am really a virgin, why would it be like this?First-time issue supplement: I want to add that in the morning and afternoon the next day, I had some light bleeding, like the color of the last two days of my period. What does this mean?
Doctor's answer:
??????Some people do not experience bleeding during their first sexual intercourse, which leads to doubts. Although she repeatedly asserts her innocence, she remains greatly puzzled. In fact, the hymen can naturally break due to vigorous physical exercise, horseback riding, cycling, dancing, masturbation, trauma, or hard labor, and the bleeding and pain may be so slight that they go unnoticed. Therefore, whether or not there is bleeding during the first sexual intercourse is not sufficient to determine if someone is a virgin. A true virgin refers to a woman who has never had sexual experience and has not engaged in sexual intercourse with a man, rather than being judged by whether there is bleeding on her wedding night. So, don't overthink it!