Patient's question:
A while ago, my husband got a disc about pornographic films depicting sex. The entire video showed scenes where women also ejaculated during orgasm. I had never known that women could also ejaculate before, but after watching that film, I recalled my previous sexual experiences with my husband and realized that I had never experienced ejaculation either. It made me start to doubt whether I had ever reached orgasm. Why didn't I ejaculate?Follow-up question: This has been troubling me for a long time. Since then, I've noticed that my sensitive areas don't feel as sensitive as they used to when I have sex with my husband. What should I do?
Doctor's answer:
Everyone's climax experience is different, and there is no fixed concept of climax. The effects of sex are actually influenced by many factors, such as lighting, emotions, physical condition, environment, and so on. As long as you both are in good condition, just be serious and fully engaged. In reality, women also experience ejaculation, but it flows from the urethral opening, not semen. It is the fluid released by women during climax or when extremely stimulated, which is perfectly normal. However, this is not the only sign of climax. In adult films, there is also moaning, but not moaning doesn't mean they aren't experiencing pleasure, right? So, you should relax and not let adult films influence you, because many scenarios in adult films are rarely used or occur in normal sexual situations. After all, they are acting. The ways and effects of sex vary greatly. As long as you love each other and are fully committed, isn't it a very happy thing?