Women's Capital Collection - (Selected Treasure Edition) (Selected Treasure Edition)

Author: Lin Chang
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Publish Date: 2006-03-01
Features: Challenging the love of a successful man is that even an ordinary man cannot tolerate a woman's persistent pursuit of love, let alone a successful man. The same tricks not only make you lose love but also make you despised by him. Therefore, remember: successful men need love, but the love they need must be measured. Because, a woman's lover is a man, while a successful man's lover is his career. In today's open trend, as women move from traditional dependence to independence and freedom, two types of men naturally become women's "prey": wealthy men and successful men. Compared to the former, the latter seems to have more charm and allure. Because, having money does not necessarily mean success, and a successful man must have a certain value. Moreover, with the deepening of quality and taste, the level of a man has also become a "precious" aspect that new women pay great attention to: a wealthy nouveau riche is not considered equal to success in the eyes of a woman with taste; on the contrary, in the interpretation of a successful man, taste combined with wealth is considered a perfect pursuit. Of course, a successful man's success philosophy and social relationships also play a role in women's success, which is also valued by women. As the saying goes: Women conquer the world by conquering men. However, appreciation is one thing, and love is another. A woman who appreciates a successful man is like looking at a flower in the fog, gaining a bit of ease and beauty; a woman who loves a successful man is like drinking coffee alone, ending up with bitterness and heaviness. The philosopher Nietzsche once said: For men, even the sweetest woman is bitter. Today, this saying is also applicable to women. As we know, more and more women are tasting the bitterness in the sweetness of love for successful men. And how to challenge the love of a successful man is the wisdom these women are eager to acquire. As the saying goes, know your enemy and know yourself, and you will never be in danger in a hundred battles. Let's start by discussing the characteristics of successful men.
(1) Characteristics of Successful Men
① Goals. Psychologists tell us that men are goal-oriented. Successful men, in particular, have their own goals. Goals are the guide and motivation for success. At the same time, men with goals may also have the flaw of being overly rational. If you love a successful man, while loving his success, you must also accept his rationality. You must understand that even if he loves you very much, as a woman, you cannot become his permanent goal. Once you are conquered, he will return to his usual rationality and prepare to rise to a higher level at the starting point of his success.
② Perseverance. Edison said that the key to success lies not in a person's intelligence but in their perseverance. A successful man is no exception. Perseverance is a persistent determination combined with 200% focus. Only in this way can a successful man need more release and greater relaxation after his struggles. If you love a successful man, remember: relaxation may be a woman's skill for ordinary men; for a successful man, it is a long-term gift from a woman.
③ Ambition. As the saying goes, people strive for higher goals, and water flows downward. For ordinary men, ambition may be their nature; for a successful