Patient's question:
During regular sexual activity with my wife, I haven't been able to climax for a very long time, but when having sex with girls I dislike, I lose control within 3 minutes. I usually have sexual intercourse twice a week, and if I have it four times a week, I have some white hair and feel cold easily. I usually take a nap between 12:00 and 1:00, and due to training reasons, I exercise very little. Is this premature ejaculation, or is it kidney deficiency? How should I adjust myself to be more enduring?Doctor's answer:
I will help you clarify this issue. Based on the situation you described, you have the bad habits of overtime work and sexual activity. Additionally, you lack exercise and experience cold hands and feet. This indicates a typical Yang deficiency constitution. As for the phenomenon of rapid ejaculation during sex with a stranger, it is mainly related to your excited mood. To regulate and stabilize your condition, it is essential to eliminate bad habits and cultivate good ones, such as early sleep and regular exercise.