Marriage: A war between men and women

Author: (Russian) Dilia Yenikieva
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Publish Date: 2006-01-10
Features: A famous writer once said: Marriage is a war between men and women. In this war, no matter which side wins, the outcome is bitter. Even if marriage is truly a war, it should not be filled with constant conflicts, battles, and mutual destruction. This book allows us to re-examine the consequences of the war between the sexes, analyze the psychological characteristics and respective strengths of men and women, and explore the demands men and women have of the opposite sex, as well as the typical mistakes they often make. In fact, everything is within your control. After reading this book, you will have a sudden realization and find your mind cleared! Fishes prefer deeper waters. Men like to possess. Fishes prefer deeper waters. Men like to possess. Therefore, even during a passionate romance, men are more concerned with their own needs rather than the feelings of the woman they love. On one hand, this is an advantage: men rarely "lose themselves" and are seldom influenced by women. On the other hand, men appear very selfish (in women's eyes), though this is not actually the case. Men, no matter how much you give them, they still want more. From a young age, boys are raised with the idea that they should be strong. When they grow up, men believe that any flaws they have are symbols of weakness. Therefore, unlike women, men often lack self-awareness and the ability to adapt to changing circumstances. Many have witnessed the mighty Zinamet pulling an intercity electric train for a full eight kilometers—from the Libercy station to the Malakhovka station. This left people in awe, and even more astonishing was that the train arrived on time. If a man has a disagreement with a woman, he often curses her: "All women—stupid!" or "All women—whores!" It is precisely because men are stubborn and lack self-awareness that it is so difficult for them to admit their mistakes, let alone apologize. Their only flaw is that they never see their own shortcomings. Men always place the pursuit of success and the achievement of life goals at the highest priority. For any normal man, social value is always the highest goal he strives for: desiring to excel in a certain field, hoping to master high-level professional skills, yearning for a position or at least to earn more money. As a result, men are always highly motivated and have a strong sense of self-importance. For men, respecting others is just as important as respecting themselves. The more they acquire in life, the stronger their self-esteem becomes, and naturally, they desire even more respect and admiration. I don't love myself; I just appreciate it. Women seem to have endless chores every day: taking care of children, managing household affairs, and working to earn money. Many women often complain that it is extremely unfair. They claim that why must we constantly juggle household chores and work, being overwhelmed, while men live carefree, free from trivial matters and worries? They go home after work, comfortably lounging on the sofa, indulging in their favorite TV shows. Hand over the salary to the wife—and it's all done. However, in today's highly competitive era, men's lives are also filled with various challenges and confusions, and they often bear immense pressure from all sides. Any normal man must exert every effort to create his own glorious achievements: either earn more money or rise through the ranks. Additionally, their innate competitiveness drives them to strive and push forward. If a friend (neighbor, acquaintance, relative, etc.) achieves success in their career, they will never willingly fall behind. P10-11