What should I do if there is no climax during sex?

Patient's question:

Hello! I have never experienced any sensation or pleasure during sex. (My boyfriend is physically healthy). But when he stimulates my clitoris with his fingers, it seems like I have an orgasm, but this feeling only lasts for about a minute. Does this count as an orgasm?
Will my sex life continue to be like this in the long run? Will my body have problems?
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Doctor's answer:

Hello, female sexual climax is divided into clitoral climax and G-spot climax, which are two different types of experiences.
The clitoris is located above the urethral opening, with sizes varying greatly among individuals, ranging from rice grain to finger-sized (diameter 0.3-1 cm). Its structure is similar to the male penis, and it has an erection function during sexual arousal. It is an extremely sensitive organ, and simple stimulation can trigger sexual climax. It is also the most commonly stimulated area for many women during masturbation. However, during sexual intercourse, when fully aroused, it is hidden due to the congestion and enlargement of the labia majora and minora. Therefore, the penis cannot directly stimulate the clitoris during intercourse; it only receives indirect stimulation from surrounding tissues, which is sufficient to provoke a sexual climax for the highly sensitive clitoris. In certain specific sexual positions (e.g., rear entry), the male can also stimulate the clitoris with his hand, which makes it easier for the woman to reach climax.
Female G-spot climax is a modern discovery. The G-spot refers to a sensitive area on the anterior wall of the vagina. Although there is no clear anatomical evidence to support it, studies have found that stimulating the G-spot can induce female climax. Moreover, this type of climax is different from clitoral climax. During sexual intercourse, the rear entry position is easier to stimulate the G-spot, which is why some women can only enjoy climax in this position.
The awareness of the female G-spot adds color to the beauty of sexual life. Various enjoyable sexual experiences can maintain the attractiveness of sexual life and enhance the beauty of love.

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