Patient's question:
Doctor, hello. I have never experienced what an orgasm is before. Once, when my husband was not at home, I really wanted to, so I watched some adult videos and masturbated. It was my first time, and I felt an unprecedented excitement and reached an orgasm (I guess). Why do I feel just as excited when I have sex with my husband, but still can't reach an orgasm? Sometimes I feel like I'm almost there, but it's just a little bit short, and he stops. What should I do?Doctor's answer:
??????Hello, this is related to your excessive masturbation stimulation, but the pleasure of masturbation is different from the pleasure of sexual intercourse: masturbation is a solo behavior, it can only temporarily relieve sexual desire, it is just a purely physiological activity, while marital life is accompanied by various spiritual activities, playing the role of transmitting sexual and love information between the two, through physical contact it increases intimacy, security, and mutual attraction, thereby obtaining greater physical and psychological satisfaction, while after masturbation, psychologically, it is possible to become depressed and heavy.