Patient's question:
Hello doctor, I have never experienced what an orgasm is before. Once, when my husband was not at home, I really wanted to, so I watched some adult videos and masturbated. It was my first time, and I felt an unprecedented excitement and reached an orgasm (I think so). Why do I feel so excited when having sex with my husband, but still can't reach an orgasm? Sometimes I feel like I'm almost there, but it's just a little short, and he stops. What should I do?Doctor's answer:
??????Hello, this is related to your frequent excessive masturbation stimulation, but the pleasure of masturbation is different from the pleasure of sexual intercourse: masturbation is an individual behavior, it can only temporarily relieve sexual desire, it is just a purely physiological activity, while marital life is accompanied by various spiritual activities, playing the role of transmitting sexual and love information between the two, through physical contact to increase intimacy, security, and mutual attraction, so as to obtain greater physical and psychological satisfaction, while after masturbation is finished, psychologically it is possible to become depressed and heavy.