Patient's question:
Hello! When I have sex with my husband, I always fail to reach orgasm, but when I watch adult videos alone in my room, I get very excited. As long as I gently touch my clitoris, I can reach orgasm. I am married and have not had children yet. What could be the reason why I can't reach orgasm during sex with my husband but can with gentle self-stimulation?Doctor's answer:
First, not every sexual encounter leads to an orgasm, and you shouldn't deliberately expect it. The more you try to achieve an orgasm, the less likely it becomes. During sex, don't think about anything—just focus on enjoying the experience. A perfect sexual encounter doesn't necessarily require an orgasm. Before sexual activity, it's important to engage in more foreplay to increase the secretion of love juice and promote lubrication. It's also recommended to adopt the male-on-top position, as it can provide more stimulation to the clitoris.