I can't let you down

Author: Han Li
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Publish Date: 2006-01-01
Features: True compassion is about focusing more on others' happiness, health, and peace, rather than being cleverly calculating within one's own small world. The extent to which a person pays attention to others determines the height of their inner self. And the height of one's inner self directly determines the quality of their life. Those who harm others for personal gain, exploit others' trust, or act out of ignorance and passion are destined to remain at a limited height—very limited. Self-discipline will give you a sense of seriousness, and seriousness will elevate you beyond your small self. Once elevated, you will focus more on others. Listen to the guidance of your heart, not to the opinions of others. Ask yourself: What kind of life do you want? Love is when you can give confidence, maturity, happiness, ease, and stability to your partner while also receiving these from them. Otherwise, let go. Letting go of someone you love in pain is a generous act of love. Love yourself, and you will trust yourself; trust yourself, and you may break through; break through, and you may achieve dual independence—financial and spiritual; be independent, and you may accomplish yourself.