Patient's question:
I really like my boyfriend, but I've never been able to figure out what he really feels for me—is he also very fond of me? However, when we have sex, he is very willing to perform oral sex on me. I've asked some of my female friends, and they say that this behavior means my boyfriend loves me very much. Their boyfriends sometimes do the same thing, and it's also considered a skillful act.What kind of help do I need: What are the techniques for performing oral sex on a woman?
Doctor's answer:
Making love is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and set the mood for it. For example, at night, dim the lights a bit. Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital structure is more complex with more folds, making it easier to accumulate dirt. So when showering, pay attention to cleaning the labia majora and minora thoroughly. The man should turn on some music and wait in bed for her. After the woman showers, she should get used to applying some perfume to her genital area, but don't use too strong perfume or too much of it. When the man is performing oral sex on her, his nose will be closest to her genital area. If the perfume is too strong, it can easily irritate him. Also, don't apply perfume to the labia, because the scent of your so-called "genital fluid" isn't from perfume. Instead, spray some perfume on your palm and lightly dab it on the pubic hair area and inner thighs. It's also a good idea to lightly apply some perfume to the clitoris (anogenital area). Prepare two towels, one large and one small. The large towel should be placed on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel is for wiping sweat and water. Place a glass of water by the bed so it's within reach when thirsty, avoiding the need to leave the room to get water and interrupt the woman's experience for too long.