Patient's question:
How to save yourself when the penis is trapped in the vagina during sexual intercourse?Doctor's answer:
During sexual intercourse, the muscles around the vaginal opening or in the vagina contract strongly and persistently, causing the vaginal opening and canal to narrow, making it impossible for the penis to enter the vagina or for it to be withdrawn after insertion. This is known as vaginismus.Why is vaginismus more common on the night of a wedding? The main reason is that the bride is experiencing her first sexual intercourse, and her psychological state is complex, with high levels of tension or even fear. Meanwhile, the groom may be too eager and act too roughly or clumsily. As a natural self-defense mechanism, the vagina reflexively contracts defensively.
Emergency Measures
1. When vaginismus occurs, if you try to stop the sexual activity, it will only cause more pain because the vagina continues to contract. In this case, the emergency measure is: The groom should gently and compassionately encourage the bride, reassuring her not to panic.
2. Then, use left abdominal breathing, adopt a normal position, and lift the legs. This can help stop the contraction because this position is similar to the birthing position, allowing the vagina to naturally relax.
Precautions
1. "A problem in the heart requires a cure for the heart." Since vaginismus is usually caused by the bride's psychological state, the first step is to alleviate her mental tension and fear.
2. Before the wedding, the newlyweds can learn some knowledge about sex. The bride should fully understand that "sexual life after marriage is not a matter of shame." The groom should be gentle and tender, giving his wife multiple forms of affection to make her feel relaxed and accelerate sexual desire.