Patient's question:
Often, I hear my friends talk about how incredibly happy and blissful they feel during their climax, forgetting everything. But after experiencing many men, I've never had that kind of intense pleasure.I've never had an orgasm since the very first time. Many men left me because of this. When I first started, I was like a piece of wood—lying in bed, motionless, with no expression, not making any sounds, and showing no reaction. Later, through various means, I learned how to perform and did so, but I still didn't have an orgasm. Every time, it was just pretending.
I've always had a casual attitude toward sex, but when I'm in bed with my boyfriend, I can't help but...
Doctor's answer:
Hello: The following information is for reference:Treatment Methods:
(1) Western Medicine Treatment: The cause of sexual apathy is often not singular, so treatment requires different approaches depending on the specific cause. Sexual apathy lacks objective symptoms and is primarily based on patient self-reporting. Only when patients genuinely seek treatment can it be effective; otherwise, it may have the opposite effect.
Western medicine treatment mainly includes psychological therapy and medication. Psychological therapy methods include eliminating fear, overcoming biases about sex life, improving marital relationships, and more. Medication treatment mainly involves sex hormone drugs and antidepressants. For organic diseases, corresponding medications should be selected based on the underlying condition.
(2) Traditional Chinese Medicine Treatment:
1. Syndrome Differentiation and Treatment: The pathogenesis of this condition is characterized by qi stagnation, phlegm obstruction, yang deficiency, essence deficiency, and insufficient qi and blood. Therefore, the treatment principle is to regulate qi, relieve stagnation, dry dampness, transform phlegm, invigorate yang, nourish essence, and replenish qi and blood.
(1) Liver Qi Stagnation Syndrome
Symptoms: Low libido, insufficient sexual sensitivity, depression, irritability, chest tightness, distending pain in the breasts and hypochondria, lower abdominal pain during menstruation (occurring before or after the period), thin white tongue coating.
Treatment: Soothe the liver and relieve stagnation.
(2) Kidney Yang Deficiency Syndrome
Symptoms: Low libido or no libido, cold pain in the lower back and knees, feeling cold in the limbs, loose and thin stools, clear and long urination, thin and cold leukorrhea, delayed menstruation, small amount and pale color. Pale tongue with thin white coating.
Treatment: Warm the kidneys and invigorate yang.