Patient's question:
Hello, my first time wasn't bleeding, and even after several attempts, it still hasn't happened. My boyfriend keeps saying I'm not a virgin and is very unhappy. I'm confused. Thank you for your help, please.Doctor's answer:
After cohabitation, if there is no "red flower" (blood discharge), it is generally due to one of the following two reasons: First, the hymen may have been broken long ago due to accidental trauma, such as sharp objects accidentally contacting the external genitalia, or damage caused by masturbation, washing, or the use of vaginal suppositories. Some individuals may have naturally fragile hymens, which can be ruptured during vigorous physical activity. Second, the hymen may have a large opening, good elasticity, and fewer blood vessels inside. Additionally, if the partner is gentle and not rough during cohabitation, the hymen may not break after multiple instances. Therefore, it is not possible to determine whether someone is a virgin solely based on whether there is "red flower."