Patient's question:
I am a 24-year-old woman. In my intermittent sexual life over the past two years, I had no idea what an orgasm was. Later, I started masturbating occasionally and then understood what an orgasm was. However, I have never enjoyed any sexual experience, and it has caused me great pain. I feel like I am not a normal woman, and my friends also find it strange. He is very normal. The time is not short either. How should I cope with the first problem? Additional information: When I masturbate, I don't insert my fingers into the vagina. Instead, I use my index and middle fingers to press and rub externally to achieve an orgasm. The moment he enters my body, I lose all reaction. I have also tried other methods.Doctor's answer:
Female orgasms are divided into clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms. The climax you achieve during masturbation is a clitoral climax. To be precise, it is an incomplete climax. You can adopt some positions that allow you to stimulate the clitoris, such as the woman-on-top position or the man-behind position, among others. Additionally, you should adjust your mindset—do not become overly obsessed with the climax you achieve through masturbation, nor should you carry mental burdens. As long as you put in more effort, you will experience a more intense climax than what you achieve through masturbation.I am only three years older than you. To be honest, I have never masturbated. I got married at the age of 23, and it is through frequent communication between the two of us that we achieve harmony. Wishing you happiness.