Patient's question:
I have been married to my wife for 3 years, but the time we spent together in bed is no more than 20 times. She doesn't feel much about it and hopes the doctor can help me.Doctor's answer:
The occurrence of sexual desire is influenced not only by internal factors and the effects of sex hormones but also by external stimuli. You can read books, magazines, watch movies and TV shows, or engage in discussions related to the topic. The most sensitive areas for a woman's sexual desire include the ears, neck, inner thighs, armpits, breasts, and nipples, with sensitive points such as the "perineum," "yin yang," and "jing men." When massaging the sensitive areas, the male partner should gently and slowly rub to create a sense of relaxation. When massaging the sensitive points, use the palm of your fingers to press gently, blending softness with firmness to stimulate the woman's sexual desire. In summary, the principle is to ensure the woman experiences pleasure and comfort. Massaging once a day is sufficient.