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Author: Hu Xiaomei
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Publish Date: 2005-04-01
Features: If you are confused about love, please open this book. It is a "love antidote"—bitter, pungent, stinging, yet awakening. She unravels the layers of love, deconstructing human nature to its finest details. She provides us with a brand-new perspective, dispelling the surrounding "love" and restoring common sense and truth. In this book, Hu Xiaomei boldly tears off the layers of illusion surrounding "love," meticulously revealing the hidden flaws and shortcomings of human nature beneath the beautiful words "love."
For a woman who is afraid to face life alone, love is merely a shot of anesthesia. As long as she believes in the dogma that "women have everything with love," she can numb her courage to honestly confront life. For someone who is and defeated, love is an uncontrolled compensation—she needs to constantly seek love to prove her worth. For a man who tries to possess and deprive women, love is a catchy slogan for a conqueror. And for a woman who is possessed and deprived, love can even become a reason for her to willingly become a slave. How magical a weapon is love! But when, consciously or unconsciously, love is used as a tool to fill the various forms of defects in our lives: when love can be everything except love itself, love has lost its true meaning.
In this book, the stories used as psychological analysis material are mostly drawn from Hu Xiaomei’s long-standing emotional hotline program, "The Night Sky Is Not Lonely." These emotional events from real life, stripped of all artificial embellishments in popular romance, possess a solid and rough texture of human nature. Leveraging her knowledge of psychology and feminist theory, Hu Xiaomei offers sharp analyses and critiques, striving to construct a three-dimensional panoramic view of love, marriage, and gender relationships in our time. I believe that for all those who have ever been puzzled by love, this is a picture that feels both strange (interpreted) and familiar (on the surface), both distant yet deeply relatable.