Patient's question:
I am 26 years old, and now my first child is already 8 years old. Currently, I am planning to have a second child. Will having a second child affect my first child?Doctor's answer:
After having a second child, sometimes the older child may again exhibit "withdrawing" behavior. For example, they used to be able to eat dinner well by themselves, but now they need their mom to feed them. Or, if you ask them to share toys they no longer play with, they are not willing to do so. In these situations, don't label the child as "unruly," "stingy," or "selfish." In reality, the older child is expressing their need for love and attention from their parents. At this time, it's important to first address the child's emotions. For example, empathetically express: "Mom thinks you're feeling worried, and you're feeling heartbroken." Then, address the problem.