Good man, chase even if it costs you

Author: Huang Lu
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Publish Date: 2005-04-01
Features: If you believe "marriage is a woman's career," then this book is dedicated to fulfilling the happiness of all women. It subverts traditional views on marriage and relationships, advocating for happiness above all. Elderly parents advise their daughters: "Marry a good man." A happy husband tells his wife: "You married a good man." An unhappy married woman tells herself: "I need to find a better man." From a woman to a happy woman, success or failure depends on whether your man is good or bad. Throughout history and across cultures, whether in heaven or on earth: clinging, supporting, being devoted, and being accommodating—without being willing to invest yourself, you can't hold onto a good man. When a good man is right in front of you, investing yourself is a guaranteed long-term payoff. What should a good man be like? He should be handsome and charming; he should be successful in his career and well-known; he should be mature and steady, skilled in navigating social situations; he should be witty and humorous; and above all, he should treat his beloved wife like a precious pearl. This kind of man is the many women dream of, but does such a man exist? A good man is neither a flower boy nor a frog prince; he should neither be financially comfortable nor excessively wealthy; he should neither be foolish nor a genius like Zhuge Liang; he should neither be like Ximen Qing nor Wu Dalang. A good man is simply the "1" who is right for you. This book explores what makes a man a good man, how to identify bad men, how to attract a good man, how to turn a good man into a good husband, and how to live a happy and joyful life with your good husband. In the computer age, the secret to a woman's happiness is finding her own "1." Otherwise, happiness might just be a "0."