It's not the man's fault

Author: Chen Yi
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Publish Date: 2005-06-01
Features: A Chinese-American woman writer stands at the intersection of Eastern and Western cultures, boldly analyzing the right and wrong in gender relationships, guiding you to see the clouds of the East and the rain of the West. Western men "speak the truth"—10 types of gender worldviews for men:
1. In gender relationships, it is often the woman who leads rather than the man.
2. During daily interactions, it is not always the man who takes the initiative and the woman who is passive.
3. Men pursue things with all their might not necessarily because they like them, but because they cannot accept failure.
4. If a woman is too proactive in flattering a man, he may not refuse you, but he will not stay with you forever.
5. When it comes to sexual content, men and women will never have the same standards or measures.
6. Men can also be jealous.
7. Men are creatures who think with their "lower bodies." If possible, they are unwilling to be involved with only one woman in their entire lives.
8. Men cannot tolerate or simply don’t listen to women’s endless nagging.
9. Men value action over words.
10. Men are extremely egotistical creatures. To enter his world, you must first satisfy his ego.
We often hear some women complain, "All men are 'bad things'!" So, what kind of "thing" are men? How should women view men's "badness"? Why are men unfaithful? Why are men unfaithful? Why are men ungrateful? Why are men always the ones to turn love into tragedy? In this book, the Chinese-American woman writer stands at the height of the intersection of Eastern and Western cultures, boldly analyzing the right and wrong in gender relationships. She finds: When a woman finds a man suitable for her, he finds his destination in life; when a man finds a woman suitable for him, he rediscovers himself in her world. Destination and discovery, ending and beginning, create the fundamental mismatch between men and women in terms of thinking and behavior.
Through in-depth reflection and analysis of real-life stories that happen around us, the author helps you understand the confusion in the mismatch and gradually peels away the "veil" of gender relationships. Not the Man’s Fault is not about blindly praising men or justifying their behavior, but about helping women understand and comprehend men and their behavioral characteristics.