Emotional psychology zipper

Author: Luo Xi
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Publish Date: 2005-06-01
Features: What kind of love is healthy?
1. Love is absolutely joyful. If it's just about seeking that "romantic beauty," be cautious. Reflect on whether you lack sunshine in your heart and need love to illuminate it. In such cases, everything you love becomes blind and muddled.
2. Many people are accustomed to loving love itself, feeling that "remaining faithful for life" is very fulfilling. They get lost in the illusion of love itself, forgetting the actions of loving. If it's just one-sided persistence, what's the meaning of it?
3. Love changes. If you're only deceiving yourself, stubbornly holding onto that love, it's not the meaning of love. Love isn't about closing yourself off; open your heart and mind, and you'll love clearly.
4. Love requires selfless dedication, but it also means "loving yourself." If you don't love yourself, even torturing yourself with years, it is very unwise and not worth praising!
5. Love must have dignity. If love is just about needs and compromises without enjoyment, then love is also inferior. Don't give up on it!