Okay, here is the translation following your instructions: You can lose to others. You cannot lose to yourself.

Author: Chang Hu
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Publish Date: 2005-01-01
Features: Soul Coffee Series. Your own colorful life. This book, with its profound yet accessible content that directly addresses the heart, sorts out the past, guides the present, and reveals the future. May we share the joys and sorrows together, like drinking a cup of cool water together under the scorching sun in the desert, or riding together in a swift carriage on a long journey.