Why did we divorce

Author: Wang Ru
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Publish Date: 2005-01-01
Features: This book vividly elaborates on the distance between modern love and ideal marriage, offering an in-depth analysis of contemporary society's divorce issues as a new masterpiece. Marriage is life's greatest illusion. This deception will inevitably be exposed by time. As a result, many people get divorced. In the ten or more real divorce stories depicted by the author, whether it's the man or the woman, whether it's the party at fault or the blameless party, whether it's the one who has been hurt or the one who has hurt, whether it's the one who initiates the divorce or the one who is passive, they are all beautiful and willingly married. He or she feels the other is beautiful, and the other feels he or she is beautiful, even beautiful to the point of being "non-negotiable" for each other. Thus, both parties sleep together on the same bed with full happiness. This is what marriage is. However, he or she is not truly that beautiful; they all have many flaws, some of which are unavoidable, irrecoverable, and even intolerable human weaknesses. This is the truth of human nature. Neither men nor women enter marriage with their true selves. He or she only shows their beautiful side while hiding their unbeautiful side, while also only seeing the beautiful side of the other and overlooking the unbeautiful side. That's why it's said that marriage is a deception, and a sincere one. Because he or she genuinely believes that marriage must be beautiful, they deceive themselves and then sincerely deceive the other. The ordinary life after marriage will definitely make the romantic hand of love lift from their eyes, allowing them to see the real other. The other's flaws are fully exposed, and thus conflicts arise, growing increasingly intense until they reach a point of no return, leading to a breakup. This is divorce.