Sha San is a master of interpersonal relationships.

Author: Sha Jin
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Publish Date: 2004-10-01
Features: The so-called "Heavenly Rules" are not a book or set of divine laws that interfere with human destiny, nor are they precepts or commandments that dominate life and suppress desires. They are a means and skill for harmonizing interpersonal relationships and demonstrating one's own value in life. They are the highest and unbreakable laws and rules in interpersonal relationships, and a treasure trove of success or failure in such relationships. Why are the "Heavenly Rules" governing interpersonal relationships "22" rather than "24" or "28"? As is well-known, as early as 5,000 years ago, the "78:22" ratio became the universal law of commerce for the Jewish people, who are a united ethnic group. The "22" represents the wealth owners among 100 people. Therefore, if you handle interpersonal relationships according to these 22 Heavenly Rules, you will naturally possess the most valuable wealth in life. The phrase "seeking only the Way" refers to being single-minded, loyal to one's duty, calm and detached, and steadfast in action, while continuously strengthening moral self-improvement. Among Tang Sanzang's four disciples, only Sha Wujing embodies the spirit of "seeking only the Way." Among the pilgrims who seek the scriptures, Sha Wujing is the most understanding and empathetic. He knows: "A long journey has no light burdens." Carrying the load is very hard. Therefore, when Tang Sanzang teaches him to carry one shoulder, he carries one shoulder; when Zhu Bajie asks him to carry one shoulder, he happily takes the burden. This unites the mischievous Zhu Bajie through action. If caring for Tang Sanzang is part of his duty as the "deputy officer," then his heartfelt care and understanding of Sun Wukong and Zhu Bajie are his tools for gaining good relationships. This not only reflects his loving heart but also shows his capacity to embrace others. When Zhu Bajie is shouting, Sun Wukong is attacking, and Tang Sanzang is downcast, only Sha Wujing remains calm and steady as a rock. This master of interpersonal relationships can handle complex conflicts between people and always responds patiently to those ever-changing situations. Through analyzing Journey to the West and combining with modern classic cases of interpersonal relationships, this book summarizes 22 Heavenly Rules for interpersonal relationships.