Change happens in an instant: The law of parents and children's joint success

Author: Fu Zhongguo
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Publish Date: 2004-09-01
Features: This is a rich and distinctive success education book. The success studies for parents and adolescents complement each other, combined with effective success methods, which are believed to play a positive and effective role in promoting every teenager to quickly embark on the path to success. Our university will implement success education among its 10,000+ students, and this book is our required textbook. Wishing all readers of this book success! — Wang Tuqiang, Executive Principal of Beijing Humanities University
People often demand that children "should do this," but lack specific guidance on "how to do it." It is believed that the publication of this book will be timely rain for families, schools, and students. Its strong guidance and operability will benefit generations deeply. — Yan Anying, Teacher at Guogongzhuang Middle School, Fengtai District, Beijing
Unique Format: Combining Two Books for Mutual Benefit
This is the world's first motivational book for parents and adolescents to grow together. It breaks the standard model of general books by combining Parent Success Studies and Adolescent Success Studies into one volume. Some chapters are read together by parents and children, while others have parents read double pages and children read single pages. The purpose is to allow parents and children to focus on the same topics, understand the patterns of success in both career and studies, master the secrets of happiness and joy, and grow together towards success.
The author summarizes hundreds of concepts and methods that will impact a person's life, proving their significance and effectiveness through personal experiences, providing vivid examples for parents and children to use these methods to solve learning or life challenges.
Integrating Rapid Change with Lasting Success
In Parent Success Studies, Fu Zhongguo, an experienced "Outstanding Trainer in China," uses numerous facts and methods to tell parents that as long as they master the correct educational methods, their children's mindset and behavior can change immediately. It systematically explains the methods and steps for rapidly changing mindset and behavior, stimulating potential, and achieving goals. Once parents master these methods, they can not only rapidly inspire their children's learning potential, change bad behavior, and improve comprehensive qualities but also help themselves change mindset, form successful thinking and behavioral patterns, achieve greater success in their careers, and create more joy in family life.
In Adolescent Success Studies, the author teaches adolescents in simple language how to unlock their potential by changing wrong beliefs, enhancing motivation, clarifying values, developing hobbies, finding life missions, setting ambitious dreams, managing time effectively, setting learning role models, cultivating a positive mindset, controlling negative emotions, strengthening physical exercise, and changing dietary habits. This helps relieve academic and life pressure, enabling adolescents to grow into outstanding and happy students while laying a solid foundation for future career success.
Teaching Parents to Grasp Key Aspects of Family Education and Children to Control Their Own Fate
A key difference between Parent Success Studies and other family education books is that it encourages parents to focus on their children's lifelong success and happiness, prioritizing major issues and letting go of minor ones, guiding their growth in the right direction, and concentrating on solving key conflicts. It transforms discipline into motivation, encouraging children to learn proactively rather than passively, turning parental intentions into children's own learning motivation, and shifting from reactive problem-solving to proactive prevention. Ultimately, it fosters a lasting drive for progress in children.
The author advocates that parents lead by example, using successful outcomes to persuade and influence children, truly becoming indispensable life success coaches for their children.
Adolescent Success Studies reveals the key factors influencing adolescents' success or failure and teaches them how to scientifically plan their lives, take control of their destiny, and align short-term academic goals with long-term career objectives.
Teaching Parents to Use Sales Techniques to Persuade Children
The book teaches parents to use sales techniques to persuade children, encouraging them to learn proper communication skills from a young age. This is another unique aspect of the book. The author explains that if parents master the correct principles and techniques of interpersonal communication and practice them repeatedly to form habits, they can persuade children and spouses more effectively at home and significantly enhance their influence at work.
The book not only provides parents with numerous methods to persuade children but also offers adolescents principles and methods for getting along with classmates and influencing others. All methods are simplified into memorable and catchy sentences, making them easier for parents and children to remember and apply.
Solving the Challenges of Quality Education and Moral Education for Minors
When the author was a top university graduate, he felt no special advantage when entering society and faced repeated failures in his career. This motivated him to explore the laws and methods of lifelong success. Behind the rise of Shenzhen's new economy, he discovered and studied the key qualities and abilities that successful people in various fields possessed, summarizing a set of rapid methods to improve the comprehensive qualities of adolescents. These methods have been tested for years in both adolescent and adult groups, gaining popularity among students and parents while earning recognition and praise from government, business, education, and other sectors.
The author's success education method greatly expands beyond traditional family education, quality education, and moral education for minors, overturning many conventional beliefs and integrating quality education with exam-oriented education organically.
The book transforms the difficult-to-implement quality education and moral education into lively and engaging concepts and methods, making them relatable to daily life and truly entering the hearts of modern people. It helps parents and children recognize the power and role of personality and morality, inspiring a strong desire to improve moral qualities.
The book guides parents and children to continuously reflect on the value of life, encouraging them to pursue lofty ideals and help them rebuild moral concepts in an acceptable way, enabling people to achieve life value and economic rewards based on serving the public.