Learn to choose, understand to give up

Author: Zhao Jialu
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Publish Date: 2004-08-01
Features: It is a choice that must be personally decided. As the number of available options increases, the difficulty of choosing also grows. Because each choice can only realize one opportunity while also meaning the loss of others. When facing major turning points in life, one must be brave and proactive in pursuing success, yet also leave a way to retreat. Winning is certainly pleasing; losing is not necessarily tragic. Looking back at a person's entire life, it is the result of continuous choices. Life's choices are like this—no matter what choice is made, it will never be perfect or exactly as desired. There will always be regrets, and perhaps the regrets themselves are a form of beauty. Challenge yourself, since you have made a choice, you should not regret it; convince yourself, this is the one that suits you. Don't take choices too seriously; those so-called big choices are as simple as choosing to eat or sleep. Don't make giving up too difficult; time can soften everything. Leave what you cannot decide to let time take care of. Learn to choose, understand letting go, and even though there is a bit of bitterness, a bit of pain, and a bit of sorrow, there is more relief, joy, and happiness. Learn to let go, and your backpack can carry many new things; learn to choose, and move forward lightly to embrace new experiences. Learn to let go, give up what you don't need, give up what isn't yours, give up a flower while it is still beautiful, so you will always possess that beauty!