Okay, here is the translation following your instructions: Bend down to communicate with the child

Author: Wang Lu
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Publish Date: 2004-07-01
Features: How can you communicate with your child? As a father or mother, do you also have such confusion? Yes, when the child is still young, because they are relatively naive and simple, they rely more on their parents, and many things are actively told to their parents. Parents also give a lot of care and love to their children. At this time, the communication between parents and children seems to have no problem; However, as the child grows day by day, they start to go to school with backpacks and begin to learn to observe and think, and even start to have secrets and all kinds of emotions. At this time, communication becomes more and more difficult. It is undeniable that every parent has a love for their child that comes from the bottom of their heart, but many communication failures are not because of a lack of love for the child, but because of a lack of respect for the child. Parents always think, "You are my child, so you must listen to me," and thus often look down on and coldly face their children. They never strive for deep spiritual communication, but instead try to unilaterally enforce what they call their responsibilities, and as a result, the child is suffocated by this distorted love. Kneeling down is a great concern and understanding for the child; it is a way for us to care about the inner world of children; and it also creates a democratic, harmonious, and mutually respectful relationship between parents and children. Parent-child communication starts from this moment when we kneel down. Put down the authority of the parent, be friends with your child, and use love and respect as guidance, so that your child can have a healthy and happy childhood.