Explore the true meaning of love

Author: Hu Di
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Publish Date: 2004-05-01
Features: Loving someone can be very painful and exhausting, because understanding isn't something one is born with—it requires a period of time, not a short one. Some people may have to dedicate their entire lives to it. This is a tragedy, a brutal tragedy. In love, there is no gratitude, only attraction, strong attraction. Love is not about repaying a debt, but about accumulating more and more emotional debts. It can never be settled or paid off, never. Love cannot be hesitant, nor can it be full of doubts and fears. Love can only be about putting oneself in the other person's shoes and pleasing them. Love is not about lust, but about emotions. What is love? Love should be a kind of understanding between two people. A commitment where both are willing to give their all. It can embrace all the flaws, shortcomings, ugliness, and humility of the other person. Love cannot be confirmed by law; it can only spark a fire when two hearts collide. Embracing the other person does not mean abandoning the effort to help them improve their qualities to adapt to society. Loving someone is not just about considering their qualities, morals, talents, wisdom, or even their handsomeness and beauty. It is about the determination to face hardships together.