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, Preparations for a Son and Considerations Similar to those for a Daughter
If you wish to have a son, it is not only important to pay attention to the planned conception day, but also necessary to acquire some knowledge beforehand to ensure thorough preparation.
1. Begin measuring your basal body temperature correctly from the day you decide to conceive a son.
2. Start taking 4 natural calcium tablets daily.
3. For 2 months leading up to the planned conception day, use condoms during intercourse to practice effective contraception. Do not use birth control pills or an IUD.
4. Continue measuring your basal body temperature to identify the day of a sudden drop. Simultaneously, observe any increase in cervical mucus and record it on your basal body temperature chart.
5. Even with correct basal body temperature measurement, some individuals may still not know the day of the temperature drop. Therefore, it is advisable to visit an obstetrician to check your cervical mucus around the potential ovulation day to confirm if it is indeed the day of ovulation.
6. After taking natural calcium for 2 months, attend an obstetrician's office on the ovulation day of the third month for an ultrasound examination and a crystallization check of the cervical mucus to determine if you should continue taking natural calcium.
7. Adopt sexual positions favorable for conceiving a son and relax during intercourse.
8. For conceiving a son, it is preferable for semen to be (dense). Therefore, have intercourse on the day after menstruation and again two days later, then abstain from sex until the planned conception day to ensure a higher number of vibrant Y sperm are released on the day of ovulation.
9. Even if conception occurs on the planned day, continue taking natural calcium until you have been diagnosed with pregnancy by a doctor.
Precautions
1. Determining the ovulation day is crucial when trying to conceive a son. To confirm the ovulation day, it is recommended to visit the clinic 1-2 times every 2 months to ensure consistency between your self-prediction and the doctor's diagnosis.
2. Even if a regular biphasic basal body temperature curve is not observed, if you feel that cervical mucus secretion has reached its peak, seek guidance from a doctor regarding the optimal intercourse day.
3. If you miss taking natural calcium for 3 consecutive days, you should restart the regimen. Therefore, it is essential to continue taking it until pregnancy is confirmed by a doctor.
4. If the ovulation day determined by basal body temperature differs from the ovulation day observed through cervical mucus, prioritize the cervical mucus observation.
, Intercourse on the Ovulation Day with the Intention of Conceiving a Son
As mentioned earlier, Y sperm are short-lived. The number of Y sperm is twice that of X sperm for a reason. Compared to X sperm, Y sperm move well in alkaline conditions but are otherwise inferior: they are not tolerant of acidity, lack stamina, and are very short-lived. Therefore, according to nature's design, the number of Y sperm released during ejaculation is twice that of X sperm to maintain a balance between the birth rates of sons and daughters. Consequently, if intercourse is intended on the ovulation day with the goal of conceiving a son, it is important to release as many vibrant Y sperm as possible.
Releasing Vibrant Y Sperm
The most important factor in conceiving a son is to have intercourse on the day when the vagina secretes alkaline mucus, which is typically the ovulation day. Simultaneously, complete abstinence from sex is required for the 2 weeks leading up to the planned ovulation day. However, some individuals may find it difficult to completely abstain for 2 weeks. In this case, intercourse can occur on the second day after the end of menstruation and again two days later. Therefore, only two instances of intercourse are allowed between the end of menstruation and the planned ovulation day. Especially important is absolute abstinence for the 5 days prior to the planned ovulation day, followed by intercourse on the day of ovulation or the following day. This approach helps ensure the release of a large number of vibrant Y sperm on the planned conception day.
Furthermore, the ability to release vibrant Y sperm is closely related to physical condition at the time. It is ineffective to practice abstinence only to become weak due to a cold. When practicing the method for gender selection, both partners' physiological functions must be functioning normally. Therefore, it is important for both men and women to maintain good health regardless of the desired gender. Statistics show that the success rate for conceiving a son without determining the intercourse day is 62%. However, if couples are guided to have intercourse on the ovulation day, the success rate exceeds 80%. This indicates that conceiving on the ovulation day significantly increases the likelihood of having a son.
, Dosage and Timing of Natural Calcium Intake
Sufficient for 4 Tablets Per Day
As previously mentioned, natural calcium serves as both a nutrient and a means to increase the likelihood of conceiving a son. When trying to conceive a son, women should take 2 tablets in the morning and 2 tablets in the evening, totaling 4 tablets per day, and continue for more than 2 months. Some individuals believe that the more natural calcium they take, the better the effect, and thus consume 30 tablets per day. Indeed, as a nutrient, natural calcium provides maternal nutrition, and taking slightly more than the recommended amount is generally harmless. However, regarding the effect on gender selection, even taking a larger amount does not enhance the effect. Therefore, 4 tablets per day are sufficient.
Additionally, some people think that since calcium increases the likelihood of conceiving a son, any commercially available calcium supplement will suffice. However, the natural calcium used for gender selection is different from commercially available calcium supplements. We do not recommend taking natural calcium for general nutritional calcium intake. Because natural calcium is a supplement specifically intended for those trying to conceive a son. For calcium intake, commercially available convenient calcium supplements can be used.
Appendix: Can it be taken with other medications?
Natural calcium is not a specific medication but one type of nutrient. Therefore, it is acceptable to take it alongside other vitamin supplements or calcium supplements. However, if taking calcium for nutritional purposes, it is better to consume foods rich in calcium or use commercially available calcium supplements.
What if a dose is missed?
The method for taking natural calcium is to take 4 tablets daily and continue for more than 2 months. It is absolutely crucial not to forget. However, everyone can experience "omissions." If you forget to take it on one day, it can become an issue. However, if you miss it for 3 consecutive days, the concentration of the drug in the blood decreases. If you miss it for 5 days, it becomes completely ineffective, and you must start the regimen again from the beginning. If you need to travel and will be away for several days, be sure to carry it with you and do not forget to take it. Another important point to note when taking natural calcium is that long-term use may prevent pregnancy. After stopping natural calcium, if intercourse occurs on the ovulation day and pregnancy results, it may be because abandoning the gender selection method made intercourse less stressful, thereby increasing the likelihood of conception! Additionally, if you feel pregnant on the planned intercourse day (even if you are not actually pregnant), stop taking natural calcium, and have intercourse, pregnancy may still occur. In both cases, the goal is to have a son, but the result is a daughter.
, The Effect of Green Jelly
Use Before Intercourse on the Ovulation Day
The first condition for conceiving a son is to have intercourse on the ovulation day. Y sperm, which create sons, are stronger in alkaline conditions than X sperm. On the day of ovulation, the vagina secretes alkaline mucus. Green jelly is used to increase the alkalinity of the vagina on the day of ovulation.
The method of use and storage precautions for green jelly are the same as for pink jelly. Please refer to the previous instructions. Do not use substitutes.
To conceive a son, it is sufficient for the vagina to maintain an alkaline environment. Therefore, another method is to use a sodium bicarbonate solution to rinse the vagina. Add a small spoonful of sodium bicarbonate to 180 ml of warm water, dissolve the sodium bicarbonate in the water, and pour the solution into a vaginal rinse bottle. Rinse the vagina every 2-3 minutes for 15 minutes before intercourse. However, this method is prone to failure and is best used in combination with other methods.
, Positions and Ejaculation Precautions
Deep Intercourse is Better
Another condition for conceiving a son is to release a large number of vibrant Y sperm into the vagina. Therefore, the male should insert the penis deeply into the vagina and ejaculate in the deeper part of the vagina. Additionally, after intercourse, do not immediately withdraw the penis. Maintain the inserted position in the vagina as long as possible; if it can be sustained for 30 minutes, the likelihood of conceiving a son increases further. After the male leaves, the female should also not move immediately. Remain in a position with tightly closed legs for more than 3 hours.
Work on Positions for Deep Insertion
To insert the penis as deeply as possible, focus on the positions during intercourse as well. For example, positions where the male is on top with the female's legs raised as high as possible, the knee-curve position where the female curves her knees, or the rear entry position where the male enters from behind the female lifting her hips, are all suitable. After intercourse, if the penis is kept inserted in the normal position while the female places a pillow under her waist, it is more effective.
, The Relationship Between Orgasm and Ejaculation
Secretion of Alkaline Fluid
The vagina is typically acidic, but the degree of acidity varies among individuals. However, if a female becomes highly excited during intercourse and experiences an orgasm, alkaline fluid is secreted in the vagina. Of course, this also varies depending on the female's inherent acidity. For example, for some women, the vagina may only become alkaline after experiencing 2-3 orgasms. In an alkaline environment, Y sperm move more actively. When trying to conceive a son, it is beneficial for the female to experience as many orgasms as possible during intercourse.
Spend More Time on Foreplay
How can a female achieve an orgasm? This requires cooperation between both partners. Especially for the male, to help the female experience multiple orgasms, more time should be spent on foreplay. During intercourse, if the male is always focused on "how to conceive a son," it creates tension for both partners and hinders the ability to achieve orgasm. Therefore, it is essential to relax fully and enjoy the pleasure of intercourse. It is often said that "sexually skilled individuals conceive sons." Couples who spend more time enjoying intercourse are indeed statistically more likely to conceive a son.
Appendix: What if it is difficult to achieve orgasm? Is it impossible to conceive a son?
Achieving an orgasm often requires assistance from the male. If it is difficult to achieve orgasm, a major reason is often that the male does not spend enough time on foreplay. For Y sperm, experiencing 2-3 orgasms is very beneficial. The male must understand this and fully enjoy the pleasure of foreplay. However, this issue varies from person to person. Even if there is no pleasure, if the appropriate position is chosen on the ovulation day and the male penis is inserted deeply and ejaculates, many people still conceive a son. If you are constantly worried, "What if I don't feel an orgasm? What should I do?" it (fǎn'ér) hinders the ability to experience pleasure. Therefore, the couple must enjoy the pleasure of intercourse with a relaxed mindset.
, Gender Selection Diet
How to Adjust Diet When Trying to Conceive a Son?
According to research on food, some foods are acidic, while others are alkaline. If a couple is truly trying to conceive a son during family planning, to increase the likelihood of having a son, the female should consume more alkaline foods. This type of food can help balance the body's acid-base level, making it more alkaline and increasing the chance of Y sperm successfully fertilizing the egg. Generally, alkaline foods include fresh vegetables, milk, grapefruit, bananas, and kelp.
What should be noted in the diet when trying to conceive a daughter?
Since the sex chromosome combination for a daughter is XX, if you want to have a daughter, it is necessary to try to increase the chance of X sperm fertilizing the egg. Therefore, pregnant women should maintain an acidic body environment to hinder Y sperm and help X sperm fertilize (shùnlì - smoothly). Research shows that X sperm prefer an acidic environment. Therefore, in daily diet, women should consume more acidic foods, such as meat, chicken, eggs, peas, and cereal foods.
When is it appropriate to take Chinese medicine?
Generally speaking, the conditioning effect of Chinese medicine is greatly beneficial for women. It can be used not only for daily body maintenance but also relatively increases the likelihood of conceiving a son. To further increase the chance, selecting an appropriate consumption time becomes particularly important. According to a female's physiological cycle, the suitable time to take Chinese medicine is approximately one week after the menstrual period. This period coincides with the end of menstruation and the time before ovulation. The dosage should be at least 2-3 doses per month. Although taking Chinese medicine does not guarantee a 100% chance of conceiving a son, it indeed has a good tonic effect on the health of modern busy women and is quite helpful. Therefore, those interested can try it.
The Best Time for Dietary Control
Since dietary control is so important for couples preparing for pregnancy, many expectant fathers and mothers must be starting to think about it. However, there may still be doubts about the appropriate timing for dietary control and how long it needs to be maintained to truly achieve the goal of conceiving a son or daughter as desired. Actually, improving the body through balanced diet is a continuous and cumulative process. Therefore, it naturally requires a period of adaptation and adjustment. If the couple is truly serious about controlling their diet, it is better to start implementing it a year before planning pregnancy, which will be more effective. Additionally, besides the expectant mother controlling her diet, the expectant father must also cooperate with his wife, controlling their diet together and maintaining a regular daily routine, while avoiding overexertion.
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