Patient's question:
What clever preparations should be made before having sex?Doctor's answer:
The choice of time is very important. Which time is best during a day? Some people have sex at night—before going to sleep. If both partners are not excessively tired physically or mentally, having sex before sleep is more suitable. Sex can induce a pleasant sense of fatigue, thus having a hypnotic effect, allowing both partners to quickly fall into a dream state.Alternatively, sex can be enjoyed in the morning. Around 5-6 a.m., some scientists believe that morning sex is most suitable for newlyweds, as they believe that a child conceived during this time will be the smartest. This is because both partners have had sufficient rest. As the saying goes, "A year's plan lies in spring, and a day's plan lies in the morning." However, morning sex also has its "negative" aspects, as work is about to begin, and sex can leave one feeling a certain degree of fatigue, which may affect studies and work.
Some people have sex during the day, but daytime is generally not advisable, as it is often disrupted by various distractions (such as the arrival of other family members), further impacting studies and work.
Mental state and mood: Sexual desire often depends on the hours or even days before the act. The saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" reflects this, as a pleasant mood naturally leads to sexual intimacy. Maintaining a joyful mood requires daily effort. Couples who frequently argue rarely have a strong desire for intimacy.
Health condition: Before engaging in sexual activity, it is important to pay attention to both partners' health. If one is extremely tired or ill, sexual activity should be avoided—even if there is a desire to have sex. Impulses should be suppressed early, and other forms of affection should be used to compensate.
Appearance and dressing: Both partners should pay attention to their appearance. Women, in particular, should pay more attention. Proper makeup and fashionable attire can enhance attractiveness. Current "slim" and "revealing" clothing styles highlight body beauty and, most importantly, increase sensuality. Wearing appropriate beauty lingerie to sleep can make up for any shortcomings in natural appearance and provide a good sensory stimulation for the husband.
Creating a good environment: Regular travel, outings in spring and autumn, watching movies, enjoying songs and dances, visiting parks, or admiring beautiful landscapes can refine one's character and increase sexual desire.